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Welcome!This page has a run down of all the essential information about the services I offer including the issues I work with, a short introduction to nature-based therapy and my work in men's mental health support.I also provide some information on how I work and what you can hope to gain from working with me, and at the bottom of the page you will also find a list of prices, and information about how to book a free 30-minute consultation.

Issues I Work With

I provide nature-based counselling services from a range of locations in Birmingham and Solihull, as well as online nationwide for adults struggling from:

You might not have such a specific label for your struggle. This doesn't take away from the suffering, and may make it difficult to know where to find support.It might be that you resonate more strongly with the following descriptions:

Nature-Based Counselling

Nature-based counselling is counselling that takes place outdoors, in the natural world. Being in nature brings with a huge arrary of wellbeing benefits that serve to directly enhance the quality and effectiveness of therapeutic work.In contrast to traditional, indoor counselling we have the freedom to use the space as we wish - if you are somebody who likes to sit and reflect in stillness and quiet, we can find a quiet bench or felled tree to perch on.Others prefer to walk-and-talk or interact directly with the environment, kicking up leaves, picking up sticks, getting stuck into all the sensory delights that nature brings with it.I talk more about nature-based counselling in the Blog, as well as on my Instagram page.

Men's Mental Health Support

I work well across all gender identities, but experience has led me to believe that men may particularly resonate with my approach and with me as a practitioner.Through my own personal attempts at navigating the worlds of work, family, fatherhood and friendship, as well as a wealth of professional experience I believe I am well placed to work with some of the unique struggles that men can struggle with in the modern world.These include:

Nature-based approaches can also be particularly attractive to, and effective for, men - where traditional mental health treatment can feel like a somewhat daunting prospect for many men, nature can help to reduce some of the anxiety and shame that can come in the initial phases of seeking help.

How do I Work?

I offer therapy in three ways: outdoors in natural settings, online via video call, and in-room. We’ll choose the format that feels most supportive and accessible for you.For more information about the locations I work from click here.Working in a humanistic way, most of our time together is spent in reflective dialogue, helping you understand your experiences and how they impact your life. At times the approach will be gentle and open - at others we may experiment with a more challenging, directive stance.Depending on what feels helpful, we may also include breathwork and meditation, creative exercises, and other approaches designed to support insight, awareness, and regulation.

What Can I Hope To Gain...?

Although it's not always the aim of the work, for many it can quite quickly bring about a reduction of their symptoms, particularly feelings of stress and anxiety, as well as an overall lifting of mood and feelings of wellbeing.As we progress you can hope to experience a newfound clarity around issues that previously seemed impossibly complex, and a deeper more fundamental shift in your relationship to yourself and your inner world.Previous clients have described feeling:

Prices

Introductory Phone Call
Free (telephone or online only)Nature-Based Therapy / Walk-and-Talk
£50 per 50-minute sessionOnline and Telephone Counselling
£50 per 50-minute sessionIn Person (Indoors) Counselling
£60 per 50-minute sessionA limited number of concessionary places are available for those on low incomes and students. If you believe this applies to you, please do get in touch below and we can look at this in further detail.

If you are struggling with any of the above, or feel like you resonate with anything you have seen here then please don't hesitate to reach out using the link at the bottom of the page.I say much more about the ways in which work and why I choose to do so in the Blog, as well as on my Instagram page.

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Highbury Park

A beautiful old park nestled among the Victorian suburbs of Moseley and Kings Heath.It has woodland, open grassland, streams and ponds as well as a wide range of bird species, mammals, trees, insects and historic architectural features remaining from it's origins as a 19th century landscape garden for the nearby Highbury Hall.Accessible by wheelchair, it can be reached:

Clowes Wood

A stunning area of semi-natural woodland adjacent to the better known Earlswood Lakes that has been granted SSSI (Site of Special Scientific Interest) status for it's diversity of bird and mammal life. It has a rich diversity of different habitats, and woodland types and is always a pleasure to work in.Accessible by wheelchair (but in the winter and early spring can be muddy underfoot), it can be reached:

Indoors

I do understand that for any of number of reasons, outdoor working may not be for everyone and so I also offer face-to-face sessions from my consulting room in Kings Heath.Set in a discreet location just off the main high street, the space is light, spacious and comfortable.Exact location will be provided at point of enquiry, but the room can be reached:

Online

For online work, you simply choose a space that is confidential and works for you and we connect via phone or video call.For many this is the easiest, most convenient way of working and for many people is as affective as traditional face-to-face counselling.

Remote Nature-Based

Available nationwide, remote sessions can also be facilitated in nature, either via video or phone call. This allows us to benefit from the grounding presence of the natural environment, even when we're not in the same physical space together.For more details about this way of working, please reach out using the link below.

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As a BACP registered humanistic counsellor, I believe that we each have the capacity for change, even when life feels overwhelming or uncertain.My path into counselling came from lived experience — from struggling in my formative years with addiction, mental health issues and undiagnosed ADHD, to more recent but no less profound experiences of coming to terms with the messiness of life in both it's joys and in its pain.It left me with a deep respect for how hard it can be just to keep going, and a drive to offer others the kind of space I believe all us need: where you feel seen, understood, and not alone.I'm particularly drawn to the profound effects of the natural world on our mental and emotional well-being, making nature-based therapy a core part of my philosophy. As well as spending frequent, and sometimes extended, periods of time in nature, I also engage in a number of woodcrafts using materials I find in the places I frequent.For those interested you can read more about this and see pictures of the things I make hereIn our sessions my commitment is to create a confidential and compassionate environment. I'm here to support you in exploring your experiences, gain fresh perspectives on what feels stuck, and navigate your life transitions with greater clarity and resilience.My goal is to help you cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and ultimately to be who you want to be.

Qualifications and Experience

I hold a Level 4 Diploma in Therapeutic Counselling and have worked in NHS, third sector and private institutions (including my own private practice) providing me with a broad range of experience in the field of mental health, alcohol and substance misuse and gambling addiction with both adolescents and adults.This is complemented in my current work by a number of years experience working in the nature conservation field, where I led practical, educational and nature connection groups for the general public and hold a Level 3 Diploma in Countryside Management and Environment Studies.

There is more about me, both inside and outside my role as a counsellor in the Blog, as well as on my Instagram page.

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Contact Me

For direct bookings simply follow this link to schedule a session:

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To ask a question, or find out more about how I work, please feel free to get in touch using the form below.I’ll get back to you as soon as I can, usually within 24 hours, and would be glad to hear from you.

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Blog

If the rest of the website provides a pencil sketch of me and my work, then this is the place where I will begin to add some shading and colour to the overall picture.It won't all be counselling related, but hopefully all of it can help to give an impression of me and who I am and therefore provide a sense of myself for those who are interested in working together.It is all written content, but if video is more your thing then do visit my my Instagram page where I regularly post videos.Unlike the rest of the site, this is currently - and will always be - a work in progress. So do check back regularly if you find anything you like.

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Shame

"Shame is a soul-eating emotion..."
―Carl Jung

"The most paradoxical aspect of neurotic shame is that it is the core motivator of the superachieved and the underachieved, the star and the scapegoat, the righteous and the wretched, the powerful and the pathetic"
―John Bradshaw

As somebody who is fascinated by the nature of subjective experience, counselling feels to be something of an intuitive calling. Ever the seeker of universal truths, underlying and uniting principles, both in my own life and more generally in the world, it provides a unique opportunity to observe, to collect data and, in time, to be able draw conclusions from the things I hear, see and feel on a daily basis.One such conclusion which has begun to take root for me over the previous few years is as follows: most, if not all, of our psychological distress is driven not by the symptoms - depression, anxiety, addiction, suicidality etc. - that we so readily identify as being 'the problem.' These are simply manifestations of something far greater, and far deeper, something that pre-dates all these things.But because it is at once deeper, older and more fundamental to our view of ourselves, it is also far more difficult to perceive, identify and work with. And yet it is this core experience that underlies human suffering.I speak of course, of shame.

Shame is a profound and often deeply felt belief that there is something fundamentally wrong with us and therefore with our lives and the world at large. For some of us it is the air we breathe, the lens through which we view ourselves and the world, colouring and tainting everything we think and feel, informing every action we take.Whereas guilt is a feeling of regret for what we have done, shame is regret for who we are. If left unchecked it eats away at us, providing the necessary fuel for mental and physical illness, keeping us stuck in old ways of being, depriving us of our capacity for joy, and removing the possibility for real connection and love.

Usually originating in childhood, it has strong links with trauma, especially in how it manifests in our nervous system, for some leading to a near-constant state of fight, flight or freeze. This could show up as hyper-vigilance and anxiety, rage and violent aggression. It might manifest as numbness, dissociation and shutdown.Or it may be more insidious, sneakier, more pernicious, making its presence felt in our very attempts to overcome it: through perfectionism, compulsive achievement and a ceaseless pursuit of the validation of others that we believe, somewhere, must hold the key to true happiness.Or finally, we try to bypass it completely. In recovery circles addiction is often referred as a fear-based illness. I disagree. I believe that the extent of any given addiction - be it alcohol, substances, gambling, sex or any other behaviour that we use compulsively in order to provide comfort from difficult emotions, even where we know that behaviour is harming us, and the people around us - is in direct proportion to the shame from which it is attempting to escape...You don't, however, have to have experienced serious trauma to suffer with chronic shame. Mis-attunement from caregivers, arguing parents, sibling and peer rivalries, belonging to a minority group within the wider society...these all have the potential to develop into a view of ourselves that is based on supposition that we are the problem, a supposition that is at best deeply uncomfortable, and for many of us absolutely intolerable.

When an experience is intolerable in this way our bodies and our minds do incredible things to protect us. And this is where things get interesting...What if depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts and addictive behaviours, far from being the root causes of our struggles, were actually ways we have developed to protect ourselves?What if the numbing effects of low mood, the heightened stress of constant worrying or the warm oblivion of addiction were actually ways of keeping us safe from a deeper, more fundamental pain?What if it is this in and of itself where the hope of a different way of being lies...?

The Wisdom of Shame

“For magic consists in this, the true naming of a thing.”
― Ursula K. LeGuin

"Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance."
―Brene Brown

To begin to perceive our shame directly, to experience it as it is, is to begin to chip away at the hold it has over us. For most of us, this is a process that takes time, effort and a great deal of courage. It requires a slow and gentle peeling away of all the layers, starting with the anxiety, the depression, the addiction and the emptiness - the symptoms of the thing. For some, this is enough. Life can resume with a lightness and ease not possible in the midst of struggles with mental health.For others however there is yet further to go, a nagging feeling of something else, something greater, deeper, or simply felt but out of sight. And so we continue on the journey...For those who do there are no guarantees. The task is different for everyone who undertakes it. There are however two things I believe we can say for certain:

To say it won't be easy is something of an understatement. Working through our core shame can, at times, feel like risking oblivion. It challenges us to our very roots, in ways that may surprise us.It goes without saying that we need a high degree of safety in which to engage in such an undertaking, which is why a secure therapy relationship based upon mutual trust can be such a beneficial - but by no means the only - context in which to do this work.

And then, gradually, gradually, at times almost imperceptibly, we begin to notice things. Life begins to feel, different. Our attitudes towards objects, towards other people, begin to change. New vistas emerge, light begins to find its way through the cracks, fresh air percolates, driving out the dust.Acceptance, connection, love and gratitude - all those things that for so long appeared as mirages on the road before us become tangible, felt and lived. We find a solidity in our own steps, and an ease in knowing when we may need to lean on others for our support. Life becomes turgid with meaning, with purpose and possibility.It's still painful. It's still imperfect. And at times, part of us still yearns to be beyond it all, the pain, the suffering, the grind.But a bigger, and growing, part of us knows that it continues regardless and the fact that we are not there yet can only mean one thing: that this is only the start.

If you are struggling with shame and would be interested in exploring whether I may be able to help you, use the link below to schedule an initial phonecall.

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Plant and Woodcrafts

Alongside my counselling work, I make simple functional and decorative pieces from foraged wood and plants. This process draws on the same values that sit at the heart of my nature-based practice: attentiveness, patience,and respect for the living world. Working with wood and plants invites a slower pace and a different kind of listening — to grain, growth, and form. Many of these woods come from the same outdoor spaces where I carry out my therapeutic work.The pieces I make are not perfect, nor would I want them to be. In fact it is extremely important to me that the imperfections - knots in the wood, chainsaw marks, fungal or insect damage and weathering - are given space to be in the finished item. Like in human relationships, there are always flaws, natural features or scars, wounds that have been acted upon us, that inevitably show up even where we try our best to hide or suppress them. I believe that it is through accepting and even prizing these aspects of ourselves, of our lives and of the things that inhabit our world that beauty, meaning and connection can emerge.

Mounted Epiphytes

Epiphytes are a type of non-parasitic plant that grows on other plants. They are often seen growing on tree bark, or in clumps of moss. They obtain their moisture from the surrounding environment in a range of ways dependent on species, but always without taking from their host.I was first introduced to mounted epiphytes by my wife. In her native Taiwan they’re commonly grown in homes, on the street and in cafes and other businesses (see image below).I was immediately struck by the strange, striking forms and the sense of abundance that emerges from seeing man-made structures dripping with lush greenery. Immediately hooked, we got to work making some for ourselves - initially just for our home, but increasingly for family, friends and more recently paying customers.

The range of epiphytic plants available in the UK is somewhat limited, but still substantial enough to sustain our ongoing experimentation. We primarily use staghorn ferns (Platycerium spp. - particularly the common staghorn fern Platycerium bifurcatum) due to their striking appearance and relative resilience in their non-native climate. As the name suggests, they bare a resemblance to deer antlers, and thus mounted on a wall are reminiscent of a stag's head hunting trophy.Other species we regularly mount include the blue-star fern (Phlebodium aureum), fish-bone cactus (Epiphyllum anguliger) and bromeliads (Bromeliaceae spp), amongst many others.The wood used for the mounts are all either foraged or reclaimed hardwoods. As above (and below) I like rustic, organic forms for that honour the natural make-up of the material, always seeking to preserve the story a given chunk of wood has to tell and provide a setting for the plants that is aesthetically coherent.

Hand-Carved Spoons

I am also an occasional spoon carver, working directly from found wood using only axe and knives. They’re left unsanded — burnished or knife-finished — and shaped to remain close to the material they came from. I like spoons that look rough, organic, like they've been found on the woodland floor or amongst the embers of a still smouldering campfire.My favourite woods to carve with are birch (Betula spp.), alder (Alnus glutinosa) and cherry (Prunus spp.) foraged almost entirely from local woodlands, parks and gardens.

Below is a sample of some of my work from the past few years...

Both mounted plants and spoons are available for purchase upon request. Click below and drop me a message with a brief explanation of what you are looking for.Due to the nature and means of sourcing materials, I am unable to reproduce exactly anything pictured above, but will always do my best to approximate as closely as possible a given design.

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